Potty messes, chewed shoes, annoyingly thov ntawm lub rooj-cov no yog ob peb scenarios txhua tus aub tswv to taub.
Tom qab nqa tus dev tshiab los tsev, nws yuav siv sij hawm ib pliag kom koj tus dev tuav rawv txoj cai hauv tsev. Tab sis muab sijhawm rau nws, thiab koj tus dev yuav tau txais lub hang ntawm nws. Nws tsuas yog siv ntau lub siab ntev.
Dab tuaj yeem kawm tau los ntawm lawv qhov kev ua yuam kev. Txhua yam ua rau nco. Kev nco yog qhov laj thawj loj vim li cas tib neeg thiab tsiaj tuaj yeem ua tiav txhua yam. Tom qab tag nrho, koj tus dev yuav kawm tau li cas tag nrho cov lus txib, ntsej muag, thiab qhov chaw tshiab?
Tab sis qhov zoo npaum li cas yog tus dev nco? Yog tias lawv tuaj yeem khiav kev sib tw, sib ntaus cov neeg phem, thiab tiv thaiv lawv tus tswv, lawv lub cim xeeb yuav tsum zoo. Puas yog txhais tau tias nws ua haujlwm tib yam li tib neeg?
Yog cov lus nug no ua rau koj nyob hmo ntuj, peb muaj xov xwm zoo. Peb tab tom teb cov lus nug no hauv kev tshaj tawm hnub no! Cia peb pib.
Dab Nco Ntsoov Zoo Li Cas?
Yog tias nws tsis yog rau lawv lub cim xeeb zoo thiab txaus siab ua raws li lawv cov tswv, cov dev yuav tsis yog txiv neej tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj. Koj puas tuaj yeem xav txog kev cob qhia tus dev thiab tsis txhob khaws cov ntaub ntawv? Tsis ntseeg, ntau tus tswv dev yuav mus berserk. Ua tsaug cov dev khaws cov ntaub ntawv zoo. Tab sis tseem muaj ntau yam uas yuav tsum tau kawm txog dev nco thiab kev txawj ntse ua haujlwm!
Peb paub tias dev muaj kev nco, tab sis tseem tsis tau paub tias dev taug kev los ntawm cov kev nco no mus kawm li cas. Nws tseem tsis tau paub meej yog tias cov dev tshwj xeeb tshaj tawm lwm yam tsiaj 'kev txawj ntse. Tab sis tag nrho, lawv lub cim xeeb yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws.
Yuav kom nkag siab qhov no, peb yuav tsum tham txog ntau hom kev nco thiab qhov no cuam tshuam li cas dev kawm.
Short-Term vs. Long-Term Memory
Lub sijhawm luv luv yog lub siab lub peev xwm khaws cov ntaub ntawv me me rau lub sijhawm luv. Ntawm qhov tod tes, kev nco mus sij hawm ntev khaws cov ntaub ntawv tsis kawg rau lub sijhawm txuas ntxiv.
Dab muaj lub cim xeeb luv luv tab sis nyiam tsis nco qab ib yam dab tsi tom qab 2 feeb. Tab sis nrog kev rov ua kom txaus thiab koom nrog, kev nco luv luv tuaj yeem ua lub cim xeeb ntev.
Piv txwv li, qhia koj tus dev zaum thawj zaug yuav muab khaws cia ua lub cim xeeb luv luv. Raws li koj tus dev xyaum thiab khaws cov txuj ci, nws kawm cov lus txib thiab ua kom nws nco tau ntev.
Associative vs. Episodic
Puas koj tus dev dhia rau kev xyiv fab thaum koj mus txog rau txoj hlua khi thiab dab tshos? Yog hais tias nws ua, qhov no yog associative nco. Koj tus dev tsim qhov sib npaug yooj yim hauv nws lub taub hau: Leash + dab tshos + taug kev=lub sijhawm zoo!
Tab sis tej zaum tsuas yog lub sij hawm koj tawm ntawm txoj hlua khi thiab dab tshos yog thaum nws txog sijhawm mus ntsib kws kho tsiaj. Yog li ntawd, koj tus dev koom nrog ob yam khoom nrog kev txaus ntshai thiab sim khiav mus rau toj.
Associative memory feem ntau suav nrog cov khoom, tib neeg, thiab qhov chaw. Kev nco Episodic feem ntau cuam tshuam nrog cov xwm txheej. Piv txwv li, kev sib tsoo tsheb yuav tiv thaiv koj tus dev los ntawm kev hlub caij tsheb. Nyob ntawm seb koj tus dev kawm li cas, ob hom kev nco tuaj yeem ua tau zoo lossis tsis zoo.
Yog li ntawd, dab tsi yog qhov no ua rau dev ua yuam kev? Nws txhais tau hais tias cov dev kawm ntawm lawv qhov yuam kev ib yam li peb ua. Lawv xav tau ob peb sim ua ntej nkag siab qhov zoo thiab qhov phem. Tab sis yuav ua li cas lawv hloov mus los ntawm cov ntaub ntawv no tseem yog qhov paub tsis meej rau cov kws tshawb fawb!
Dab Apologize-Thiab Lawv Hais Tias Nws
Ntau tshaj txhua yam, dev xav kom lawv tib neeg. Lawv tsis xav kom peb npau taws, poob siab, lossis ntxhov siab rau lawv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum lawv tseem kawm. Thaum cov dev thov txim, lawv rub lawv tus Tsov tus tw ntawm lawv ob txhais ceg, nteg lawv pob ntseg, thiab furrow lawv ob lub qhov muag. Los ntawm lawv lub ntsej muag, paub meej tias lawv thov txim thiab qee zaum ntshai tsam yuav tshwm sim tom ntej.
Zoo siab heev uas pom koj tus me nyuam zoo li ntawd, txawm tias koj npau taws. Tab sis koj ua tau dab tsi?
Koj tuaj yeem lees txais koj tus dev qhov kev thov txim. Peb paub tias nws yooj yim dua hais dua, tab sis dev yog tsiaj ua ntej lawv ua khub. Qee zaum, instinct tau txais qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm lawv. Koj tseem tuaj yeem cem koj tus dev, tab sis tsis txhob qw lossis ntaus. Qhov no tsuas yog ua rau koj tus dev ntshai koj, thiab peb tsis xav li ntawd.
Dab Puas Paub Thaum Tib Neeg Ua yuam kev?
Kev xav yog tus tsav tsheb loj rau dev. Lawv paub thaum koj tu siab, ntxhov siab, lossis npau taws vim lawv xav tias tib yam kev xav no!
Dab tsis nkag siab thaum koj ua yuam kev ua tus tswv dev, tab sis lawv nkag siab cov kev xav thiab xav li cas kom muaj kev mob siab.
Thaum koj ua yuam kev li tus tswv-thiab koj yuav-qhia koj tus dev koj hlub nws. Tsiv nws, khawb nws ntawm noggin', thiab hnia nws yog tias nws yuav cia koj. Siv lub suab mos muag thaum hais lus rau koj tus dev. Qhia nws tias koj tseem hlub nws.
Yuav tus dev tsis yooj yim. Tab sis ua tsaug, dev kawm los ntawm lawv qhov kev ua yuam kev thiab hlub lawv tus tswv yam tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej. Txhua yam koj ua tau yog kawm thiab ua kom zoo dua tag kis!
Conclusion
Peb txhua tus ua yuam kev, thiab koj tus dev tsis muaj kev zam. Hmoov zoo, cov dev muaj lub cim xeeb zoo los pab lawv kawm ntawm lawv qhov yuam kev. Raws li tus tswv tsev dev, koj ua ib feem hauv kev qhia koj tus dev ntawm qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Koj yuav ua yuam kev thaum koj mus, tab sis qhov ntawd yog ib feem ntawm thaj chaw. Koj thiab koj tus dev yuav kawm los ntawm qhov yuam kev ntawd. Tsis yog lub neej yog dab tsi?
